When we talk about sex toys, we are talking about much more than just masturbation and the release of sexual tension, which is why I will list them briefly.
Getting to know your own body by experimenting with various vibrations and intensities, because we are all different and react differently to stimulation; while some women react positively to gentler stimulation, others need more intense stimulation.
Creativity. Believe it or not, sex toys encourage creativity, starting from setting an intimate mood to the movements of your own body during masturbation.
Sexual health, meaning the use of certain devices, such as kegel eggs, which can help you tone vaginal muscles, control vaginal contractions during intimacy, and intensify orgasms, as well as the use of vaginal dilators in cases of pelvic muscle tightness.
Increasing confidence in your own body and sexuality. Increasing the level of intimacy in a couple and creating extra stimulation, because as the years go by and monotony sets in, it is necessary to bring something new into your sex life.
Increasing libido, in case it decreases with the onset of perimenopause or menopause, as well as preventing the thinning of vaginal walls during this period or in the absence of a sex life with a partner.
Stress relief, thanks to the hormones released during orgasm: dopamine, known as the "feel-good hormone," and oxytocin, sometimes called the "love drug." These hormones increase feelings of happiness and other positive emotions and counteract the "stress hormone," cortisol.
Now that I have listed the 7 wonders that using sex toys can do, we can move on to the top 4 toys that I have tried, and I will post one article per week so that I can give you all the necessary details.
The Premium Eco pink vibrator, Womanizer, is a vibrator whose function is clitoral suction, with 12 intensity levels. You can find it in several versions (this is an older model), it is rechargeable, waterproof, and eco-friendly!
However, what is important is to discover how friendly it can be to you! When I used it for the first time, it was absolutely incredible; I achieved an orgasm very quickly, in less than 10 seconds. Over time, while using it, I discovered many more details about the areas around the clitoris that give me even more pleasure, so I will give you some tips that worked and still work very well for me.
I suggest you also use a thermal clitoral lubricant before you start playing with this vibrator. Place the mouth of the vibrator directly on your clitoris; I suggest you start with the first intensity level and wait a little before moving on to the next levels in case the stimulation doesn't seem sufficient for you. Be patient and feel the pulsations so you can get to know your new friend as delicately as possible, then slowly move through all the intensities so you can figure out which one is right for you and your clitoris.
Move it gently to the right and left; you might notice that one side of the clitoris is more sensitive than the other.
Move it up towards the mount of Venus and down towards the urinary meatus.
Move it in circular motions clockwise and counter-clockwise, keeping constant contact with the skin, and if you feel you need more lubricant, don't hesitate to apply it!
Another aspect that matters to me is the position I choose to masturbate in, because I have found that sensations can be different, even if we are only talking about clitoral stimulation. While at first I only did it with my legs apart, sitting or lying on my back, I later tried other positions: lying on my side, with my legs together resting against a wall or on a higher surface, on all fours... actually, on three, or on my knees with one hand resting on a support.
Move while you masturbate; the body is made for movement, it craves movement, pleasure increases, the orgasm intensifies. Move your pelvis, up and down, from right to left and back. At the same time, perform vaginal contractions; not only will this increase blood flow in the genital area, but it will also intensify the pleasure.
You have a free hand, so caress yourself, try different touches, from soft to harder, by squeezing. You can start from your head, hair, face, and slowly go down to your chest, arms, breasts, nipples, abdomen, bottom. Play, discover yourself, enjoy, allow yourself to feel, allow yourself to flow in your sexual energy!
Sit in front of a mirror and look at yourself! It is a very good method to learn to admire yourself, to love your body, and to get an extra boost of intensity through the pleasure of observing yourself in these moments of ecstasy.
I advise you that at the end, you should stop with your hand on your heart and thank yourself and your body, because the body reflects the love we give it... I thank you, I love you, and I honor you for everything you offer me... the possibility of functioning in everyday life, of seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling, of expressing myself verbally or non-verbally, of walking, running, laughing, of offering myself pleasure.